Now everything was in ruins. The air was still and cold like the air in a refrigerating-room. What I felt was fear; I was afraid to look or speak or move. Everything about me seemed evil. When kindness has left people, even for a few moments, we become afraid of them, as if their reason had left them. When it has left a place where we have always found it, it is like shipwreck; we drop from security into something malevolent and bottomless.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Fear arises when kindness disappears from people or places, creating a sense of sudden danger and loss of security.
- In plain terms
- When kindness is gone, we feel afraid and unsafe.
- What can you take from it?
- Kindness provides a sense of safety and order in our lives.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When have you felt unsafe without a clear reason?
- How does kindness affect your sense of security?
Another view
Fear can sometimes be a healthy response to real danger rather than just lost kindness.
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