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Never give all the heart, for love Will hardly seem worth thinking of To passionate women if it seem Certain, and the never dream That it fades out from kiss to kiss; For everything that's lovely is but a brief, dreamy, kind of delight. O never give the heart outright, For they, for all smooth lips can say, Have given their hearts up to the play. And who could play it well enough If deaf and dumb and blind with love? He that made this knows all the cost, For he gave all his heart and lost.

William Butler Yeats#43

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Yeats warns against giving one's whole heart in love, suggesting love is fleeting and often leads to loss and pain.
In plain terms
Don't give your whole heart to love because it can be brief and painful.
What can you take from it?
Guarding emotional investment can protect against the inevitable pain of love.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • personal reflections

Putting it to work

  • practice emotional boundaries
  • embrace love cautiously

Questions to consider

  • Can love be both fleeting and profound?
  • How do we balance openness with self‑protection?

Another view

Holding back may prevent deep connections.

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