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What does it mean?
Resolving conflict immediately prevents lingering resentment.
In plain terms
Fix arguments right away instead of waiting.
What can you take from it?
Settle disputes before sleeping.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • family

Putting it to work

  • talk it out tonight
  • don't ignore issues

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle late night fights?
  • Is immediate resolution always best?

Another view

Sleeping on it sometimes helps calm emotions.

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