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Romeo wants Juliet as the filings want the magnet; and if no obstacles intervene he moves towards her by as straight a line as they. But Romeo and Juliet, if a wall be built between them, do not remain idiotically pressing their faces against its opposite sides like the magnet and the filings with the card. Romeo soon finds a circuitous way, by scaling the wall or otherwise, of touching Juliet's lips directly. With the filings the path is fixed; whether it reaches the end depends on accidents. With the lover it is the end which is fixed, the path may be modified indefinitely.

William James#9

AdaptabilityAgencyGoalGoalsPathProblem solvingResilience

About this quote

What does it mean?
Humans can change their path to reach a goal while magnets cannot.
In plain terms
People adapt their route to reach what they want.
What can you take from it?
Be flexible in how you reach your goals.

Where it applies

  • problem solving
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • find alternative routes around barriers

Questions to consider

  • Where is your fixed end goal?
  • How have you changed your path?

Another view

Some goals require direct approaches that flexibility might compromise.

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