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What does it mean?
Family members often know the most damaging secrets and are most likely to expose them.
In plain terms
Relatives are the best at abusing a person's character.
What can you take from it?
Family closeness enables character assassination.

Where it applies

  • family disputes
  • social reputation
  • personal conflicts

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries with family
  • protecting privacy

Questions to consider

  • Do family members always have the most power to hurt?

Another view

Not all family members are inclined to abuse character.

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