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What does it mean?
Marriage cannot rest on selfish pleasure alone; it requires enduring hardship too.
In plain terms
Marriage needs more than just pleasure; it needs commitment.
What can you take from it?
Relationships require facing difficulties, not just rewards.

Where it applies

  • relationship counseling
  • personal reflection
  • family discussions

Putting it to work

  • prioritize commitment
  • expect challenges

Questions to consider

  • What sustains a marriage?
  • Is pleasure enough?

Another view

Mutual pleasure can be a valid part of relationships.

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