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Sex itself only exists in relation to procreation. That's one of the reasons why I sometimes object--and it's just a theoretical objection, but it's worth thinking about--to the whole notion that one calls what people of the same sex do 'sexual relations.' As a matter of fact, they have precisely turned their back on sexual relations, in order to engage in acts of mutual pleasure that have nothing whatsoever to do with sexuality.

Alan Keyes#40

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Keyes argues that true sexual relations are defined by their connection to procreation. He claims same-sex acts focus on mutual pleasure rather than sexuality as he defines it.
In plain terms
Sex is only real when it relates to making babies, so same-sex acts are not truly sexual relations.
What can you take from it?
Define sexuality strictly by its reproductive function.

Where it applies

  • debates on sexual definition
  • traditional moral frameworks

Putting it to work

  • framing sexual ethics
  • critiquing LGBTQ+ terminology

Questions to consider

  • How do you define sexual relations?
  • Is procreation necessary for sex to be meaningful?

Another view

This view excludes non-procreative sex within heterosexual relationships.

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