And then he remembered that the other function of sex is punishment - men use it to humiliate women. And since turnabout is fair play, women often use it to humiliate men
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Sex is described as a tool for humiliation, highlighting power dynamics in relationships.
- In plain terms
- Intimacy can be used to hurt or humiliate others.
- What can you take from it?
- Be aware of power in intimacy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How is power used in intimacy?
- What protects consent?
Another view
Sex also functions positively in healthy relationships.
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