Having a good time together is the essence of lovingness and the best means of increasing it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Spock states that having fun together is core to love and strengthens it.
- In plain terms
- Enjoying time together builds and expresses love.
- What can you take from it?
- Make time for shared joy to strengthen bonds.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you show love?
- What brings you joy together?
Another view
Love also requires serious support and effort.
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