There's only one real sin, and that is to persuade oneself that the second-best is anything but the second-best.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Persuading oneself that second-best is acceptable is a fundamental error or sin.
- In plain terms
- Accepting second-best as first-best is a serious mistake.
- What can you take from it?
- Do not deceive yourself about the value of compromise.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Where do you settle for less than you deserve?
- Is compromise ever truly second-best?
Another view
Sometimes second-best is the only option.
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