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What does it mean?
People often demand everything but only need it temporarily.
In plain terms
You ask for everything but only want it for a bit.
What can you take from it?
Desire often exceeds actual need.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal relationships
  • consumer advice
  • philosophy

Putting it to work

  • evaluating needs
  • managing expectations
  • practicing contentment

Questions to consider

  • What do you really need?
  • Is desire natural?

Another view

It overlooks cases where sustained needs are genuine.

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