I don't give advice. I can't tell anybody what to do. Instead I say this is what we know about this problem at this time. And here are the consequences of these actions.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Rather than giving direct advice, sharing known facts and consequences allows others to make informed decisions.
- In plain terms
- Share facts and consequences instead of telling people what to do.
- What can you take from it?
- Provide information and outcomes to empower others' choices.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you share advice or information?
- How do you help others decide?
Another view
Some people prefer direct guidance when overwhelmed or unsure.
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