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What does it mean?
Avoiding pain leads to a smaller life, while loving despite pain enriches it.
In plain terms
Hiding from hurt makes life worse.
What can you take from it?
Love even if it risks pain.

Where it applies

  • heartbreak
  • new relationships
  • emotional isolation

Putting it to work

  • opening up to others
  • accepting emotional risk

Questions to consider

  • What am I hiding from out of fear?

Another view

Some trauma requires healing before loving again.

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