'...Conversation should be like juggling; up go the balls and the plates, up and over, in and out, good solid objects that glitter in the footlights and fall with a bang if you miss them. But when dear Sebastian speaks it is like a little sphere of soapsud drifting off the end of an old clay pipe, anywhere, full of rainbow light for a secnd and then - phut! vanished, with nothing left at all, nothing.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Waugh compares good conversation to skilled juggling of solid, glittering objects that risk crashing if missed. In contrast, Sebastian's speech is insubstantial, like soap bubbles that vanish without a trace.
- In plain terms
- Good talks have weight and risk; weak talks disappear quickly.
- What can you take from it?
- Prioritize substance and presence in conversation.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a conversation memorable?
- Do you value substance or style?
Another view
Sometimes lightness is preferable to heavy seriousness.
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