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The elephant, not only the largest but the most intelligent of animals, provides us with an excellent example. It is faithful and tenderly loving to the female of its choice, mating only every third year and then for no more than five days, and so secretly as never to be seen, until, on the sixth day, it appears and goes at once to wash its whole body in the river, unwilling to return to the herd until thus purified. Such good and modest habits are an example to husband and wife.

Francis de Sales#6

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Elephants exhibit faithful and modest mating habits that serve as a model for human marital fidelity.
In plain terms
Elephants show loyalty and privacy in love, which humans should copy.
What can you take from it?
Emulate animal fidelity and modesty in your marriage.

Where it applies

  • marital counseling
  • nature writing
  • moral instruction

Putting it to work

  • teach marital loyalty
  • discuss animal behavior
  • promote modesty

Questions to consider

  • What can we learn from animals about love?
  • Is fidelity natural or learned?

Another view

Animal behavior is often more complex and varies by species, making it an imperfect human model.

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