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What does it mean?
People believe they guide their lives, but their hearts often lead them elsewhere.
In plain terms
We think we choose our path, but our feelings pull us elsewhere.
What can you take from it?
Intentions and actions often do not match.

Where it applies

  • understanding behavior
  • decision making

Putting it to work

  • self-reflection
  • understanding others

Questions to consider

  • Who really controls our choices?
  • How do emotions override plans?

Another view

It assumes conscious control is always an illusion.

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  3. L'interet parle toutes sortes de langues, et joue toutes sortes de personnages, meme celui de desinteresse.

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