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What does it mean?
The idea that everyone responds to kindness is flawed, especially when dealing with irrational or dangerous individuals.
In plain terms
Not everyone will respond nicely to a generous gesture.
What can you take from it?
Kindness does not work on everyone.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • diplomacy
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • assess individuals realistically
  • adjust expectations
  • handle difficult people

Questions to consider

  • When does kindness fail?
  • How do you deal with irrational people?

Another view

Most people do respond to generosity.

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