The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when one asked me what I thought, and attended to my answer. I am surprised, as well as delighted, when this happens, it is such a rare use he would make of me, as if he were acquainted with the tool.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The highest praise for Thoreau is being listened to and taken seriously, as if his words are tools to be used.
- In plain terms
- Being heard and respected is a great compliment.
- What can you take from it?
- Value attentive listening.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why does being heard feel rewarding?
- How can we improve our listening skills?
Another view
Not all listeners have the capacity to engage deeply.
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