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What does it mean?
A man who talks is a lover; one who stops talking is a husband.
In plain terms
Talkative men seem like lovers, silent ones like husbands.
What can you take from it?
Words shape how relationships are perceived.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • marriage counseling

Putting it to work

  • maintain open dialogue
  • balance affection with commitment

Questions to consider

  • How does communication affect intimacy?
  • Can silence be a sign of respect?

Another view

Not all silent partners are unloving.

More from Honore de Balzac

  1. Qui parle trop veut tromper.

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  2. La politesse cache tres-imparfaitement l'egoisme general.

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  3. Le monde offre enormement d'enigmes dont le mot parait difficile a trouver. Il y a des intrigues multipliees.

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