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Once upon a sunny morning a man who sat in a breakfast nook looked up from his scrambled eggs to see a white unicorn with a golden horn quietly cropping the roses in the garden. The man went up to the bedroom where his wife was still asleep and woke her. 'There's a unicorn in the garden,' he said. 'Eating roses.' She opened one unfriendly eye and looked at him. 'The unicorn is a mythical beast,' she said, and turned her back on him. The man walked slowly downstairs and out into the garden. The unicorn was still there; he was now browsing among the tulips.

James Thurber#11

CommunicationMagicMarriageSkepticismWonder

About this quote

What does it mean?
A mundane interaction reveals how skepticism shuts down wonder and communication between partners.
In plain terms
Doubt kills shared wonder and connection.
What can you take from it?
Skepticism can isolate us from magic and each other.

Where it applies

  • relationship conflict
  • explaining the supernatural
  • daily routines

Putting it to work

  • listen without dismissing
  • share small wonders

Questions to consider

  • When was the last time you dismissed someone's wonder?
  • How does skepticism affect your relationships?

Another view

It simplifies complex communication issues into one skeptical reaction.

More from James Thurber

  1. You can fool too many of the people too much of the time.

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  2. Don't count your boobies until they are hatched.

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  3. You might as well fall flat on your face as lean over too far backward.

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