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What does it mean?
Sophistication is defined as keeping composure in the face of serious threats, excluding domestic ones.
In plain terms
It is being cool under pressure, but pretending the husband isn't a threat.
What can you take from it?
Sophistication hides fear in most situations except specific personal ones.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • dating
  • household dynamics

Putting it to work

  • practice composure
  • recognize biases

Questions to consider

  • What threatens your poise?
  • Is sophistication real?

Another view

The definition is humorous and excludes real emotional struggles.

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