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What does it mean?
Thurber depicts a woman's cool composure as frustrating yet attractive to men.
In plain terms
Her lack of emotion and clean habits make her hard to get close to.
What can you take from it?
Composure can frustrate and attract others.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • character description
  • relationship dynamics

Putting it to work

  • writing characters
  • analyzing attraction
  • describing people

Questions to consider

  • Why is composure attractive?
  • Is frustration good in love?

Another view

It objectifies women based on their habits.

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