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What does it mean?
The speaker compares popularity to a coquette that slips away when pursued too eagerly.
In plain terms
Trying too hard to be popular makes it harder to get.
What can you take from it?
Do not chase popularity.

Where it applies

  • social life
  • public life
  • marketing

Putting it to work

  • public relations
  • personal branding
  • leadership

Questions to consider

  • Is popularity valuable?
  • How do you seek respect?

Another view

Being ignored can harm one's ability to effect change.

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