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What does it mean?
Intimacy with a loved one can feel like a compulsive habit you both crave and resist.
In plain terms
Being close to someone feels addictive but also like a struggle.
What can you take from it?
Recognize the complex mix of desire and dependency in relationships.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • marriage
  • breaking bad habits

Putting it to work

  • reflect on dependency
  • set boundaries

Questions to consider

  • When does love feel like a habit?
  • How do you balance desire and freedom?

Another view

Not all intimacy is addictive; this view assumes a negative dynamic.

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