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What does it mean?
Tenderness and kindness are signs of strength and resolve, not weakness.
In plain terms
Being tender and kind shows strength, not weakness.
What can you take from it?
View compassion as a form of resilience.

Where it applies

  • leadership training
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • practice empathy
  • model compassionate behavior

Questions to consider

  • When can kindness be mistaken for weakness?
  • How does resilience manifest in compassion?

Another view

May be challenged by cultures that equate strength with hardness.

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