La bonte n'est pas sans ecueils: on l'attribue au caractere, on veut rarement y reconnaitre les efforts secrets d'une belle ame, tandis qu'on recompense les gens mechants du mal qu'ils ne font pas.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Kindness is often misattributed to character, ignoring hidden effort, while bad people are rewarded for not doing evil.
- In plain terms
- Kindness is undervalued; badness sometimes gets credit.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize hidden effort behind kindness.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How can we better acknowledge quiet kindness?
- What systems reward bad behavior?
Another view
Not all kindness is hidden; some is obvious.
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