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What does it mean?
Only criticize those you truly care about, not strangers.
In plain terms
Reserve abuse for true friends.
What can you take from it?
Save harsh words for people you trust.

Where it applies

  • online forums
  • friend groups

Putting it to work

  • give constructive feedback only to close contacts

Questions to consider

  • When is it appropriate to be blunt with a friend?

Another view

It can excuse bullying among friends.

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