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What does it mean?
It critiques how people choose superficial role models based on appearance rather than substance.
In plain terms
You copied models because they looked good, not because they were good examples.
What can you take from it?
Choose role models for character, not looks.

Where it applies

  • self reflection
  • mentorship
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • evaluate your heroes
  • seek substance over image

Questions to consider

  • Who are your role models and why?
  • What makes a good role model?

Another view

Sometimes looks can be misleading but also represent confidence or discipline.

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