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What does it mean?
The speaker realizes their current suffering feels like hell, questioning when the transition actually happened.
In plain terms
I am in hell now but I didn't notice when I arrived.
What can you take from it?
Bad situations can become normal so you don't notice until it is too late.

Where it applies

  • burnout
  • toxic environment
  • depression

Putting it to work

  • monitoring mental health
  • recognizing toxicity
  • seeking help

Questions to consider

  • When did your situation become unmanageable?
  • What signs did you ignore?

Another view

Hell might be internal but the situation is real.

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