I have urged on woman independence of man, not that I do not think the sexes mutually needed by one another, but because in woman this fact has led to an excessive devotion, which has cooled love, degraded marriage and prevented it her sex from being what it should be to itself or the other. I wish woman to live, first for God's sake. Then she will not take what is not fit for her from a sense of weakness and poverty. Then if she finds what she needs in man embodied, she will know how to love and be worthy of being loved.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Fuller argues that women's independence is needed not because men are unnecessary, but because overdependence harms love and marriage.
- In plain terms
- Women should be self‑reliant so love stays strong.
- What can you take from it?
- Cultivate independence to protect healthy relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does dependence affect love?
- Can independence coexist with partnership?
Another view
Independence alone may not guarantee deeper emotional connection.
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