Don't discuss yourself, for you are bound to lose; if you belittle yourself, you are believed; if you praise yourself, you are disbelieved.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Talking about yourself often backfires; modesty works better than self-praise.
- In plain terms
- Do not talk about yourself or you will lose credibility.
- What can you take from it?
- Let others speak about you.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do people distrust self-praise?
Another view
Sometimes sharing about yourself is necessary.
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