Even from their infancy we frame them to the sports of love: their instruction, behavior, attire, grace, learning and all their words azimuth only at love, respects only affection. Their nurses and their keepers imprint no other thing in them.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Montaigne criticizes how society trains children from infancy to prioritize love and affection above all else.
- In plain terms
- Society raises children to focus mostly on love and affection.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize how early education shapes values.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do we raise children today?
- What values are prioritized early?
Another view
Focusing on love is not inherently negative despite potential overemphasis.
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