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What does it mean?
Desire often contains an element of force.
In plain terms
Love has some force to it.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledge the force in desire.

Where it applies

  • relationship dynamics
  • psychology
  • art

Putting it to work

  • explore dark themes
  • set boundaries
  • understand drives

Questions to consider

  • Where do you feel force?
  • How do you express passion?

Another view

Consent separates violence from love.

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