'Why don't you ever use your strength on me?' she said. 'Because love means renouncing strength,' said Franz softly.-
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- She asks why he never uses his strength on her; he replies that love means giving up strength.
- In plain terms
- Love requires surrendering power.
- What can you take from it?
- True love is gentle, not forceful.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can love be both strong and gentle?
- When is strength appropriate in love?
Another view
Renouncing strength can be misinterpreted as passivity.
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