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What does it mean?
The speaker demands transparency even when being kept in the dark about something.
In plain terms
If you hide something, at least tell me you're hiding it.
What can you take from it?
Transparency matters even when full disclosure isn't possible.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • personal relationships
  • negotiation

Putting it to work

  • ask for clarity when things are unclear

Questions to consider

  • When is hiding things justified?
  • How do you handle secrets?

Another view

Sometimes full transparency can cause unnecessary harm.

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