Humans feel compassion primarily for those they conceive of as being part of themselves
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People tend to care most about those they see as extensions of themselves.
- In plain terms
- Compassion is strongest for those like us.
- What can you take from it?
- We help those we identify with.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Who do you feel closest to?
- Why do you help others?
Another view
It simplifies complex motivations for compassion.
More from Orson Scott Card
I'll be dead and you'll think about this day and wonder which of us was more the slave, you or me!
Permalink to quote #448 Humans had to evolve what no other primate had: a sense of identity with a group so powerful that it could swallow up the individual identity, at least to a la…
Permalink to quote #450 What difference does it make, whether we keep our silence because [they] force us or because we're afraid they might force us?
Permalink to quote #447
Related quotes
It is terrible to destroy a person's picture of himself in the interests of truth or some other abstraction.
Doris LessingDoris Lessing quote #1 Those must have all been important to me once. What I am now grew from that. A former self is a fool, an insufferable ass, but he's still human, you'd no more …
Thomas PynchonThomas Pynchon quote #46 Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations.
Alfred AdlerAlfred Adler quote #3