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What does it mean?
The mother avoids giving a direct answer, implying the son lacks the insight to understand the situation.
In plain terms
She will not explain things directly because he might not get it anyway.
What can you take from it?
Some people avoid clarity when they think the other person cannot grasp the truth.

Where it applies

  • family conflicts
  • parent child talks
  • awkward questions

Putting it to work

  • recognize evasive answers
  • accept limited understanding

Questions to consider

  • Why do people hide their true feelings?
  • Is silence ever better than explanation?

Another view

The speaker assumes the other person is incapable of understanding.

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