That was what she knew of love. No wonder [he] never recognized her love when she gave it to him. Even now, if he knew that she had loved him, it would break his heart
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love expressed in harmful ways often goes unrecognized and unappreciated.
- In plain terms
- He never saw her love because it came through cruelty and knowing to know would hurt him.
- What can you take from it?
- Misdirected love often goes unseen.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When has your love been misunderstood?
- What stops you from sharing love?
Another view
Sometimes recognizing love causes more pain.
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