Maybe she just wanted to be the one to decide when things happened between them. Then again, what women didn't want to decide that?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Desire for control in a relationship is a common human trait.
- In plain terms
- People often want to decide when things happen between them.
- What can you take from it?
- Control is a common desire in relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we need to control outcomes?
- How do we share power?
Another view
Not everyone prioritizes control in every situation.
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