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What does it mean?
It is hard to distinguish between honesty and manipulation when they look alike.
In plain terms
Honesty and manipulation can sound exactly the same.
What can you take from it?
Motives are hard to verify when actions look identical.

Where it applies

  • disputes
  • negotiations
  • personal conflicts

Putting it to work

  • seek evidence
  • ask for consistency
  • trust but verify

Questions to consider

  • How do you trust someone?
  • What proves honesty?

Another view

Sometimes actions don't reveal true motives at all.

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