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What does it mean?
Questioning why someone asks if they already know the answer and won't believe it.
In plain terms
Why ask if you know the answer but won't believe it?
What can you take from it?
People often ask questions they do not want answered.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflicts
  • negotiations
  • breakups

Putting it to work

  • honest communication
  • active listening

Questions to consider

  • Why do we ask questions we fear?
  • How do you handle unwanted truths?

Another view

Sometimes people ask to hear a specific answer.

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