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What does it mean?
The speaker claims people are stupid but says they mean well, attempting to soften the insult.
In plain terms
People are stupid, but I say it with good intentions.
What can you take from it?
Criticism should be delivered with empathy.

Where it applies

  • giving feedback
  • teaching

Putting it to work

  • use kind language
  • focus on behavior

Questions to consider

  • How can you critique without insulting?

Another view

The statement is contradictory and may undermine credibility.

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