Isn't it possible, he wondered, for one person to love another without trying to own each other? Or is that buried so deep in our genes that we can never get it out? Territoriality. My wife. My friend. My lover. My outrageous and annoying computer personality who's about to be shut off at the behest of a half- crazy girl with OCD on a planet that I never heard of and how will I live without [her] when she's gone?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- It questions whether love can exist without ownership instincts rooted in our biology.
- In plain terms
- Can we love without trying to own the other person?
- What can you take from it?
- Love often struggles against possessive instincts.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can you truly love without ownership?
- Is possessiveness natural or learned?
Another view
It assumes ownership is purely genetic and not also cultural.
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