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What does it mean?
He wants to talk to her and needs her perspective to see what he cannot.
In plain terms
He wants her help to understand things he misses.
What can you take from it?
Perspective from others helps reveal blind spots.

Where it applies

  • decision making
  • conflict resolution
  • close relationships

Putting it to work

  • seek feedback
  • listen actively
  • share thoughts

Questions to consider

  • Whose perspective do you value?
  • Who helps you see clearly?

Another view

It assumes the other person wants to help, which may not be true.

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