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What does it mean?
People understand each other only through what they show or tell, but honesty reveals true identity.
In plain terms
We only know what people show us, but truth comes out eventually.
What can you take from it?
Truth emerges over time through observation and honesty.

Where it applies

  • building trust
  • conflict resolution
  • interpersonal relationships

Putting it to work

  • observe actions
  • seek honesty
  • be patient

Questions to consider

  • How do you know someone's true self?
  • Is honesty always possible?

Another view

It assumes everyone eventually tells the truth, which isn't always true.

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