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What does it mean?
Men claim to be self‑sacrificing but never actually use common sense.
In plain terms
Men say they're self‑sacrificing yet lack common sense.
What can you take from it?
Recognize the gap between words and actions.

Where it applies

  • gender discourse
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • align behavior with claims
  • cultivate common sense

Questions to consider

  • Do men truly practice self‑sacrifice?
  • How can common sense be cultivated?

Another view

It reinforces a negative stereotype about men.

More from Oscar Wilde

  1. No woman, plain or pretty, has any common sense at all, sir. Common sense is the privilege of our sex.

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  2. Fathers should be neither seen nor heard. That is the only proper basis for family life. Mothers are different. Mothers are darlings.

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  3. Oh, why will parents always appear at the wrong time? Some extraordinary mistake in nature, I suppose.

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