When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love begins with self‑deception and ends with deceiving others.
- In plain terms
- Love starts by lying to yourself and ends by lying to others.
- What can you take from it?
- Be honest with yourself and partners in love.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do I deceive myself in love?
- How can I foster honesty with a partner?
Another view
Love can also inspire honesty and growth.
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