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What does it mean?
The shame caused by love feels like its pain: you only truly feel it once. You can pretend it later, but the real sensation is gone. However, the pleasure remains.
In plain terms
You only feel the shame of love once, but the joy lasts longer.
What can you take from it?
The pleasure of love outlasts its initial shame or pain.

Where it applies

  • post-breakup reflection
  • confessing feelings
  • remembering romance

Putting it to work

  • focus on positive memories
  • accept imperfection

Questions to consider

  • Does pleasure really outweigh pain in love?
  • Can you ever feel the shame of love again?

Another view

Not everyone finds pleasure lasting more than the pain of love.

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