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The next higher level is to work, fight, and sometimes die for your own immediate family. This is the level at which six pounds of mother cat can be so fierce that she'll drive off a police dog. It is the level at which a father takes a moonlighting job to keep his kids in college - and the level at which a mother or father dives into a flood to save a drowning child: and it is still moral behavior even when it fails.

Robert A. Heinlein#157

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Working and fighting for one's family is a high moral level, even if the effort fails.
In plain terms
Sacrificing for family is moral, even when it doesn't work out.
What can you take from it?
Family sacrifice is inherently valuable regardless of outcome.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • family crises
  • ethical discussions

Putting it to work

  • prioritize family needs
  • recognize effort over outcome
  • strengthen bonds

Questions to consider

  • What defines moral success?
  • When does duty become too much?

Another view

It ignores situations where family demands conflict with broader ethical duties.

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