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What does it mean?
Be honest about selfish motives behind seemingly noble acts, then embrace the action regardless.
In plain terms
Check if you really want to do a good deed or just look good, then do it anyway.
What can you take from it?
Act on genuine desire even if your motives are mixed.

Where it applies

  • charity
  • personal relationships
  • volunteering

Putting it to work

  • introspect before acting
  • accept mixed motives
  • focus on outcomes

Questions to consider

  • Why do you actually do good things?
  • Does the motive matter if the outcome helps?

Another view

Pure altruism is rare and self-awareness can feel cynical.

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